I'd also recommend something like logwatch to keep an eye on the import log files and also Cacti for graphing things like cpu/memory/network usage...
It shouldn't cause any problems, but it's not good that they won't provide you with another IP, I think that's a perfectly reasonable request.
The css/html ratio seems normal, as for the not viewed traffic, it depends if any spiders are using lots of bandwidth. Look under 'Robots/Spiders...
Do you have any stats software? If your host provides awstats etc. then this will show you which file types, and files are using the most...
Wouldn't you be paying a ton for bandwidth?, Australia is very expensive for bandwidth. Apart from using another location, you could look into...
5,000 visitors should be no problem at all for a shared hosting account. Does depend on exactly how much resources the forum does use though. VPS...
It sounds like you don't have enough knowledge to get a VPS and manage it properly, why not use shared hosting? That way you get a control panel...
If you protect the root directory using <Directory> that should apply to all the sub-directories so there'd be no need for multiple <Directory>...
There are no good free billing systems. The cheapest is the 8.95 clientexec license you can get through licensepal.com All of the free ones that...
If this is to better your chances of employment, I'd say a good knowledge, lots of experience and a decent portfolio of prior work will be what an...
CDN Hosting from Constant Internet Our CDN (Content Delivery Network) is a global network of servers (called "edge nodes") that will store your...
In WHM there is an option to view cpu/memory utilization for each account, that will show you where the problem is
To find the actual one that's running look at the process list in task manager. Then look at the properties of the exe file and it should tell you...
As was already mentioned above, I recommend cacti. Great software and will show graphs of all the things monitored so you can see historical data...
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